3.19.2011

Shopping Cart Psychology

I've always had this theory that you can tell an awful lot about a person by checking out the contents of their cart at the grocery store. I'm serious. Vegetarian or carnivore. Kids or no kids. No prep foods for people in a hurry, for both parents working, or for scaredy-cooks. You can spot in a second: the hostess, the diet coke addict, the sweet tooth. The health-conscious, the hippie-health-conscious, and the bachelor. The brown bagger, the empty-nesters, the hamburger-helper family of (conveniently) four. One of my recent favorites was a colorful elderly couple behind me in line who bought only TV dinners and individual Kool-Aid packets... and lots of 'em. Don't you just wonder? Or the baby-boomer/ coupon clipper in front of me who checked multiple times to be sure his discount was correct. "A penny saved is..." well, you know. Or the hesitant arm who reached past me in the cereal aisle to grab the strawberry-flavored Frosted Mini Wheats. A thirty-something Asian guy, shopping alone but for a family. I always wondered who bought cereal like that. The kind with really unnecessary flavoring. I guess now I know.

Of course I'm included in this slightly-judgmental, yet harmlessly fascinating study. Sometimes I shudder to think of how many people I appear to be shopping for, or neighboring glances wondering why anyone would buy that much cheese. And then I remember, oh yeah. Nobody notices, get over yourself and your cheese. 

However, "you are what you eat" puts into question our very identity. How intriguing to think that what we eat, what we buy, how we look-- these details display our perceived identity to the majority of the world. (That is, the world we pass on the street everyday and the world we maneuver past in the canned goods aisle once a week. Not perhaps to those who matter most.) So much of life is made up of ordinary decisions and tasks like grocery shopping or getting a haircut-- can we deny the fact that these daily ventures are part of a whole life? Pebbles in a conglomerate? Yes, even our grocery lists are contributors to our complex, evolutionary identities. Nothing done weekly for a lifetime can be considered completely irrelevant to that life.

As entertaining as it is to test my theory, I know that my supermarket portraits are little more than a glimpse into someone's living room, or a peek into their walk-in closet. They are only perception of a person. Therefore, it would be a huge waste of time to worry about the stories I will conjure up about you the next time I see your grocery cart full of Fresca and Hungry Man dinners. After all, I know you only buy them for nights you work late, which lately is often. And you just happen to love Fresca on the rocks. With a twist. While you watch Jimmy Kimmel Live- with your cat, Nibbles- which is actually sometimes hilarious. But again, I know that shopping cart is only a small part of who you are and what you do and what you love. I just like to imagine- as the wheels of my cart squeak across Cub towards produce and the promised land- that your shopping cart is a rather vital piece of your whole.




3.12.2011

Real Love, According to the Beatles

Have you ever heard the Beatles' song "Real Love"? If you haven't, you should. It's completely 1950's prom, in a good way. I mean, it feels forever young, purely happy, sweet, and it's got a great slowdancing-with-your-sweetheart kind of vibe.

Anyway, I think I know who that song is about. From one of my favorite NPR programs, StoryCorps, meet Marcia and Seymour:


http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=104979771

Good Advice

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"We can do no great things; only small things with great love." Mother Teresa

3.10.2011

Being the "New Guy"

Headlines from the last couple weeks:
Job Offers: 2 1/2. Jobs Taken: 1. 
Times it took to quit my old job: 3. Apartments found: 1.
Two weeks into my new job! Training in the warehouse, (above).
I really like it so far, I'm be working for a company that rents specialty linens, chairs, chair covers, furniture, tabletop accessories and centerpieces for events! Perfect for someone like me who sets a nice table even for take-out! I do have to admit that I'm sick of being new on the job...  but it can't last forever, right?